My friend went to the hospital on Friday.
She is 21 almost 22 weeks pregnant. She is dilated and cramping.
The doctors keeping tell her "to let nature take it's course."
It's like the phase I always use "I'm going to do the best I can to help you."
It's a generic phase to say "I really don't know what is going to happen, but I am going to make damn sure I will do everything in my power that you survive the ride with me."
I truly empathize with my friend. She is also a EMT. She is fully aware what could happen if she does deliver this soon.
I love this woman like my sister. I have never told her this. The people I love the most I always make sure to keep them at arms length. I guess I do it so I never hurt them. It also hinders any relationship from ever growing.
I don't believe in organized religion. I believe in a God. And sometime I even question that. This whole situation has me praying.
Praying my friend can hold off labor for a few more weeks.
Praying for the baby to be healthy and possess the stubbornness and zest for life his momma has, and to fight for it.
Praying that if a less desirable outcome does happen that I can do my best to comfort her.
I have never been a good friend. I have always run from the people who love me, so I never have the chance to hurts them.
I will be taking a trip to the hospital today. I hope I can bring some cheer to her.
Please everyone. I thought my immediate problem were bad, but my friends are much worst. My problem can be settled with time. My friend issue can be settled with time also. I'm just hoping the time will stay on her side, and I don't see that baby for a few more months.
Stay strong and be safe.
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